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Men, in particular, tend to be socialized to bottle up their feelings, to put them aside and get on with the activities of daily working and living. Many women do this, too, although perhaps suppressing different feelings in different ways. This suppression strategy is a mistake, because it fails to take advantage of the direction, […]

“It’s not easy being green,” was the oft-repeated phrase of Kermit the Frog. He complained about blending in so readily and not gaining appreciation for being special. He would have preferred to stand out more from the crowd. But while that sentiment made him popular with the toddlers of the day, the opposite is often

Drive is the simple urge, the motivation, the desire to succeed. It’s a key ingredient in accomplishing what you want, because it energizes you to take action in a wide variety of situations, both favorable and unfavorable. Some people have lots of drive. Some people don’t. The curious fact is that unless we’re already working

Are you cognizant of the difference between tactics and strategy? Oh sure, you probably know the words: their dictionary definitions or maybe even specific examples. But are you consciously aware of when you’re actively pursuing a meaningful strategy for your own work and life and when, instead, you’re primarily responding to daily nuts-and-bolts issues that

When you read back through my previous posts, you’ll see that I generally emphasize the positive, and I want to do that again this time. But I want to show you how to find the positive impact you can sometimes find on the negative side of the ledger. Here are four ideas that may help

It’s kind of an obvious idea: to capitalize on what you do well in order to increase your level of results, productivity, and success. But you don’t have to do this in a vacuum. There are lots of ways to help you identify these strengths, including this one. It makes sense, therefore, to look around

The United States Declaration of Independence talks about the self-evident truth of “unalienable rights,” including “Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.” It’s no wonder, therefore, that so many people – myself included – have tried hard to gather a large amount of happiness over the years. But studies of happiness show that collecting good

One of the keys to productivity and success, as I’ve written quite often, is the ability to work well with others. That’s one reason why the traits of emotional intelligence and caring about other people can be so helpful. However, those traits can take a long time to improve. Fortunately, there are also some simple

Whether or not you’re aware of it, you’re a risk taker. At bottom, risk is simply exposure to uncertainty, sometimes laced with danger. Every time you make a decision or take an action, therefore, you’re exposing yourself to some level of risk. This risk comes in many forms, including but not limited to ethical, emotional,

Last time, I wrote about enhancing your credibility so you might be offered additional new and interesting opportunities. This time, let’s start with the assumption that you are offered such an opportunity. How should you proceed? Before you commit to it, here are some questions to ask and answer about the new task, project, or